Is Roblox Safe for Kids?

5 Things Every Parent Should Know

If your child is already playing Roblox, or begging to, this guide will help you understand the risks, the benefits, and how to support them safely.

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1. Roblox Is a Platform, Not a Game

A lot of people think Roblox is a game, but it’s not. It’s a platform that hosts around 40 million user-created games (or “experiences”). Some of those are incredible: creative, collaborative, imaginative. But with a number that big, of course there are also going to be some that are inappropriate, unsuitable, or just not the vibe you want for your child.

So when you hear people say “Roblox is dangerous,” it’s a bit like saying “TV is bad.” It depends what you're watching, and how you're watching it.

The key is helping your child find the good stuff. Without guidance, they’re effectively browsing a giant free-for-all of content. But with a bit of structure, Roblox can be an amazing place for creativity, connection, and play.

2. The Risks Are Real, But So Are the Tools

Yes, there are risks on Roblox. You’ve probably heard some horror stories. Some are exaggerated, some aren’t.

That said, Roblox gives parents a suite of tools to manage the experience safely. The problem is most people don’t know those tools exist, or they’re not sure how to use them.

Think of it like this: You wouldn’t let your 6-year-old wander around near a busy road on their own. You’d hold their hand, teach them how to look both ways, and help them eventually build the confidence and awareness to do it independently. Roblox is no different. It’s not about fear. It’s about coaching your child to use the platform safely, gradually, and with your support.

3. Parental Moderation Makes All the Difference

The earlier you start guiding your child’s Roblox experience, the easier it is. Trying to place restrictions later on, after they’ve had unlimited access, is a much tougher conversation.

Roblox allows you to:

• Link a parent account to your child’s account

• Turn chat on or off (I recommend OFF for younger players)

• Control which games your child can access with a simple slider

• Block specific games from their account

• See what they’re playing and how long they’ve played

  
  

You can even use your parent account to join your child in-game, giving you a clearer idea of what they’re playing and whether it fits your family’s values.

This is about involvement, not surveillance. If you’re engaged from the start, your child will grow up thinking this is just the normal way Roblox works, not something you’re suddenly clamping down on.

4. Private Servers Make a Big Difference

One of the best tools Roblox offers is the ability to create private servers — versions of a game where only invited users can play. For younger children, this is a brilliant way to enjoy games without the risk of strangers. Many private servers are free. Others cost a small amount of Robux monthly, but you can cancel at any time.

Even if chat is turned off, some games have loopholes where players can still communicate, like writing on signs or adding graffiti to walls. Playing in a private server gives you another layer of protection. You get the fun and freedom of Roblox without the unpredictability of the public space.

It’s important to know that private servers aren’t automatically safe. Anyone on the server creator’s friends list can join. That’s why I always recommend that parents create the server themselves from their own account, or work closely with their child to control the friends list. That way, you decide exactly who’s allowed in.

5. It’s Not Just Play — It’s Social, Creative Learning

Of course, things like scamming, inappropriate language, or even bullying can happen in Roblox. But that’s also true of real life. The answer isn’t locking kids out of the digital world. It’s preparing them to be safe in it.

Roblox offers incredible opportunities to collaborate, build, roleplay, solve problems, and express creativity. It’s also a space where children connect, form friendships, and learn digital communication skills.

But none of that happens safely or meaningfully without support. So whether you're joining them for five minutes to explore a new game or talking through their experiences afterwards, your presence matters.

And if you'd prefer a fully moderated experience? In my classes, kids play together in private servers, connect safely over Zoom, and have real-time support from an experienced teacher (me). There’s no need for Roblox chat. Just a safe, welcoming space to learn and play together.

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I’m currently creating a course to help parents navigate the world of Roblox, understand how it works, and support their kids to play safely. It’s designed to cut through the confusion, explain the settings that matter, and help you feel more confident about what your child is doing online. If you’d like to be notified when it’s released, please join my mailing list, or drop a question below!